Not who cares about my thoughts….. I hope some people do!
What I mean by who cares is why are we so preoccupied with how other people choose to sexually express themselves?
The amount of time and energy that is spent and the judgement and bullying that goes on surrounding what other people do (or don’t do) with what is between their legs is baffling.
When you think about it 99.9% of the people that we come across in our life we are not going to have sex with. Why would we care what they do with other consenting adults?
There are roughly 2.5 million people in Toronto, and each of those people are sexually unique. Each of us has a sexual fingerprint making us different and special from the next person. We are all different in someway. When others are put down, judged, bullied, or made wrong because they are not the same brings me back to grade school when my Mom would tell me that the other kids would pick on me to make themselves feel better. (not sure if that was true I was a pretty dorky kid, but that is beside the point)
The desire for sexual symmetry in all people around is futile. You never know what your neighbours are doing (unless you are having sex with your neighbours, and there would still be things you don’t know). There is no right way, no wrong way, just your way…… So just keep on doing it!
- Posted by Dr. Stephen de Wit
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